Love comes from within. your heart speaks and it really has nothing to do with the mind, you can't really tell your heart any different, you love who you love and that's it love is the most natural thing and no one can never change how your heart feels. Then there is the complete opposite where they think that they are in love but it's all in there mind. They think that they love this person and that's what they tell others but deep down there heart is no where in the picture. It's seems to be a pattern in there life, there not able to take care of someone elses heart because its only there heart and there feelings that matter. There is a difference you can have love for someone or you can love a person but please no the difference before you get involved in neither situation.